Let me ask you a question. Has everything in your life turned out just the way you thought it would? Well, neither has mine! Young and old alike form expectations and dreams of how they think life will turn out be. Take a newly married couple for example. They may come to an agreement on how many children they want to have and where they want to live. Everything is planned out perfectly – often times even before the wedding ceremony! Now fast forward 5 or 10 years – from your experience, is it likely to turn out the way they thought it would? Probably not!
Consider what King Solomon wrote in Ecclesiastes, “That which has been is what will be, that which is done is what will be done.” (Eccl 1:9,
NKJV) Another way it could be said is this: “What has been done is just flat out done, period. Nothing can be done to change the past.” The past really is a settled fact. Oh, how we wish we could go back to do some things differently! I bet the majority of us reading this have something in our mind right now that we wish we could change – or we wish we could have a shot at a re-do.
Some of us might even agonize over the past. A friend of mine used to have what they called a “list of regrets” – the top ten things they would re-do and deeply regretted; this list of things would be rehearsed when anything went wrong. But, no matter how many times it was rehearsed, and no matter how badly you might want to change something or do something different, it will not change the event or the consequences.
I am convinced our western culture has been so brainwashed concerning the temporary that the reality of what God has prepared for those who love Him is overshadowed. Many today are so distracted by what is going on around them that they rarely think about eternity. This life is too fleeting to live it in the past focusing on regrets. We must come to grips with the transitory nature of things like pets, possessions, accomplishments and positions. These things come and they go.
We must recognize the moment…fully enjoying and celebrating the good things as they come, and fully releasing the troublesome things that hurt. Only one thing of the past can be changed….the way the we think about it. We must not let the past become our focus or weigh us down if we are ever to walk in the fullness of joy that Jesus has provided for us.
Some people have committed heinous acts against others. Some have made blundering mistakes that have damaged their finances, their families and/or their future. However, those things are final. They cannot be changed. We must quit “squirrel caging” those things in our thoughts. We cannot live in the past and live in today at the same time.
The word of God says, “Behold, now is the accepted time; behold now is the day of salvation. (2 Corinthians 6:2)” God
didn’t say tomorrow is the day of salvation or yesterday was the day of salvation, but TODAY is the day of salvation. While we should learn from the mistakes of the past, we should also dream of the future. However, we should live today. A friend of mine says it this way, “Live life like we drive a car, looking through the large front windshield of the future and only glance in the
rearview mirror of the past.
As believers in Christ we get a brand new life that can be renewed day by day. We are a new creation in Him. I realize our memories may never be forgotten, but the pain of them can be healed which will set us free. It will never “bug” us again and it will free us from the control of the past.
Please, let’s quit believing lies because of things of the past. The devil will put things in our mind like, “If only I would have…” or “why did it happen,” or “who is responsible?” Instead, we should ask the Holy Spirit, “Now that it has happened WHAT would you have me do?”
God has chosen to forget our past failures. Why don’t we make the same choice!!! I believe having some “lettuce” each day will transform our lives. Come on! Let’s start it today. Have a little “lettuce” right now. Okay, are you ready? Let’s proclaim with the Psalmist;
“THIS IS THE DAY THE LORD HAS MADE, “LETTUCE” BE GLAD AND REJOICE IN IT.” (Psalm 118:24)